Doris Simeon Finally Opens Up About Her Failed Marriage
Did you ever imagine that you were going to be separated someday?
No, I never thought I would be separated someday. Yes, it definitely hit me
when it happened. But life goes on.
But a lot of people had the impression that you couldn’t be bothered and
that you wanted this freedom?
No, if I wanted the freedom, I have it now; so, why am I not exploring the
situation? Instead of that, I am trying to make money. I have a lot of
responsibilities. So, rather than sit down and mourn all day, I have to face
the reality.
My mother was a strong woman and I learnt a lot from her. She went through a
lot, which I knew of from when I was a little child. In spite of all that she
went through, she kept moving on. My mom had a stroke and survived it; and she
still looked radiant. My mom jumped from one trade to another. When I think of
that, I would be like, this woman, na you born me, I must do that thing wey
you teach us. Those are the things I just look back and then I just move on. I
have a child that I need to work for, so that he won’t face the kind of
suffering I faced in the future.
Will you consider marriage again?
I don’t know, but I am not ruling it out because I am human. I might just fall
head over heels in love again. But let me still be doing what I am doing.
Wherever the Lord takes me, I will go.
What would you do differently when you find love again?
I will probably right the wrong things I did then. I mean I will do the right
thing three times over.
What were those things?
Can I even point them out? I can’t point them out.
Was it that you didn’t have enough time for the family?
It wasn’t that in anyway. It is just one of those things you have to deal
with. People will say one thing or the other to defend their own sides. When
I’m on set, I want to quickly do whatever I am doing. This is because I see a
movie script as an examination; and when you have an examination you want to
quickly do it and then relax. That is the way I work. I just want to do it and
know that I am done with this script, so I can face my family. So, it’s not
that I get carried away with work. I just want to do the best I can at that
particular time that I am doing that job and get out from that set and face my
family or face whatever I need to do next.
At a time, you and Daniel were one of the best couples in Nollywood. What
could have gone wrong?
Anything could have gone wrong. Anything could have triggered a fire anywhere.
You don’t know what might happen the next minute. We are just trying to make
things go right, but God has the final say. Yes, things happen in life and
till eternity you keep asking that question what went wrong. But if you dwell
on that, you won’t move forward because everything that happens has God’s
hands in it. There is a reason why anything happens and it has been written
that it will happen that way.
After a year, what did you do?
Funny enough, after a year, I was like, ‘Doris, how do you think you want to
move on with your life? What should you do to move on? That was when I decided
not to dwell on the past; otherwise, I will go hungry. People that want to
laugh at me are out there, so I will rather make them say, ‘Aha Aha, what’s
happening? And I am moving ahead with my life.
What is the relationship between the two of you now, given that you have a
child for him?
We have a child, so we talk. The boy is there, so why won’t we talk? We cannot
be sworn enemies forever. Not every relationship leads to marriage, yet the
people involved still talk.
But how do you feel knowing that your colleague is supposedly married to
him?She’s a woman and he is a man. Na man I go still follow so (laughs). In this
industry, most of us are colleagues; it is not that we are close friends or
something. No be say na my mama born am now.
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