“I was very angry with every kind of man, anyone that called himself a
man… It’s only that I could not manage to hunt and kill them but my
desire was to use any weapon to kill men – because one of them killed
me. Inside me, I said to myself, ‘I will never tell them my status.
Whoever comes to me, I will finish him. The way they infected me, I must
infect them also.’ I don’t know how many men I infected but they are
thousands.”
This is the true-life, shocking story of Francis, a prostitute who
spent 18 of her 32 years on earth in the sex trade, sleeping with up to
six men daily in the major cities of Tanzania and Namibia. It chronicles
her diabolical form of revenge after discovering she was HIV/AIDS
Positive in 2006 and her remarkable turnaround at an unlikely
destination in Lagos, Nigeria.
Growing up in a rural village in Tanzania, the thrills of ‘city life’
grew increasingly more attractive for Francis, a fourteen year old who
hated school and was notoriously rebellious. Striking a plan with
friends, she abandoned school one fateful day and set out for Dar Es
Salaam, the Tanzanian capital, leaving her home and family behind.
“When we reached the city, I found a lot of girls who were older than
me who were in this business of prostitution,” Francis explained. “They
introduced me how to behave in order to seduce men and get clients.”
Two years down the line aged 16, the young girl was already pregnant for
an unknown father. Attempts to abort the child through native
concoctions all failed and she resolved to return home to have her
child.
However, the desire to prostitute continued even after giving birth.
“I was even prostituting when I was breastfeeding and eventually, my mum
took the child away from me.” Francis immediately returned to the city,
linking back up with her group. Four years later, Francis’ mum sent a
message to her that a family relative was willing to take her to Namibia
to save the family from shame and get her out of the ‘mess’. She
eventually agreed.
“When I reached Namibia, I felt I was imprisoned. I couldn’t go to
clubs, smoke, drink or meet men – which is what I wanted to do.”
Fighting her aunt daily, she eventually threw Francis out of her home.
“It was celebration for me that I can go back to the same lifestyle. I
already made a group of friends that were prostituting… They introduced
me to the area where I could hunt for men and sleep with them.”
Living a lavish and promiscuous life on the streets of Windhoek,
Namibia, Francis had lost all touch with her family. ‘Business’ was
booming due to the influx of foreign workers in the city who would
regularly patronise her and also introduced her to hard drugs. However,
the consequences of her actions were about to catch up on her.
“In 2006, I discovered that I was pregnant again. I didn’t know the
father because I was sleeping with five or six men a day – I just wanted
money to enjoy,” she recounted. Encouraged by a fellow prostitute not
to abort, Francis visited a hospital when the pregnancy reached six
months where they conducted several tests. “That is when I discovered I
was HIV/AIDs positive.” Shock. Bitterness. Rage. Emotions ran wild
within the heart of the young sex-worker. “There was this voice that
said – ‘Now, it’s better you die!’ ”
Knowing that death was close, the embittered prostitute resolved to
take as many men as possible along with her. “I cannot count how many
men I have infected. If any man told me we should use a condom, I would
tell him, ‘Look at how I look? I cannot have such a disease.’ So, the
man would end up trusting me. They are thousands.”
Francis expanded her ‘business’ horizons via the internet,
particularly using the dating social network ‘Eskimi’. It was in 2013
that she encountered a Nigerian man while looking for a more ‘serious’
relationship. “The man became attracted to me and asked for my contact
details. He told me he wanted to come to Namibia and visit me.” When the
Nigerian arrived, the couple forged a relationship, culminating in
Francis falling pregnant. She did not divulge her health status.
After giving birth, Francis had a bout of guilt and visited a pastor
at Christ Embassy Church to confess her sins. “After confessing to the
pastor, who is also a Nigerian, he met the father of my child and asked
if he really knew me. He told him, ‘This girl confessed to me that she
is HIV/AIDS Positive.’ ” Francis’ Nigerian lover fainted upon hearing
the news and was rushed to hospital.
After recovering, he ‘ran away’ from her, moving to Angola. However,
their young baby was nearing the age of nine months. Francis was
desperate. Her finances were stagnant and she was tired of prostitution.
After pleading with the Nigerian, a settlement was eventually reached.
“He said the only thing he would do for me was to give me money to go to
Nigeria and drop the child with his parents.”
Some weeks earlier, a friend had introduced Francis to a Christian
television station which was gaining increasing popularity in Namibia.
It was Emmanuel TV, the station of Nigerian Pastor T.B. Joshua. Seizing
the opportunity to visit Nigeria, Francis decided to visit the famous
church in Lagos after she had dropped off her son. “When I arrived in
Lagos, they put me in a car and took me straight to a state called
Enugu. I only stayed one week there. Then I had to search for The
Synagogue.”
On Sunday 27 th April 2014, Miss Francis sat gingerly in the huge
auditorium of The Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN) in Lagos. It
was the time of prayer from the ‘wise men’ and she was nervous. “Before
the wise man came close, I felt like electricity dividing my body and I
started shivering. I don’t know what happened when he prayed for me.”
Francis received ‘deliverance’ from the ‘demon’ that pushed her to a
life of prostitution.
The following week, Sunday 4 th May 2014, Francis publicly gave her
confession in the crowded church. “I am here to kneel down and ask the
whole world, every man I encountered, to forgive me,” she tearfully
said, explaining that after her ‘deliverance’ she began regretting her
actions for the first time. She went further to send a poignant message
to her fellow sex-workers. “There is no benefit in prostitution. The end
of prostitution is bitterness and sorrow. I advise youth – if you are
in the same situation I was in, let me be an example in your eyes. Drop
that lifestyle immediately and seek the face of God.”
Francis stayed another week in the Nigerian church after which T.B.
Joshua gave her the sum of $1,500 to restart her life in Namibia. “I
will never return to prostitution. I am so grateful to God,” she
concluded.
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