Actress Caroline Danjuma Speaks For The First Time About Her Divorce
Category: Relationship Matters
Nollywood actress, Caroline (Hutchings) Danjuma, has opened up on her
separation for the first time since her split from her ex-husband, Musa
Danjuma.
The actress on her Instagram page said she had blamed
herself for not making a perfect marriage and she only realized she was not a
failure when she started to heal.
According to her, she dealt with
the hurtful words and constant mockery from friends and strangers who did not
know what truly happened to her marriage.
She wrote;
“I blamed myself for not making a perfect marriage, I blamed
myself for both faults of ours until I started healing then I knew I was not a
failure.
“I prayed to God for assistance most importantly to
forgive myself and him. Rather than hate the outcome of what was, I chose love
and peace of mind for what is.
We both ain’t perfect and that is
what makes us human.
“I dealt with the hurtful words from friends
and strangers, the stigma and constant mockery without knowledge of what truly
happened.
“God whispered, I am with you and that was it. My journey to finding me began and I never looked back. I came, I saw, I conquered , most importantly I have found my lost identity. Healed, restored, unprovoked, loving and blessed ..#howcarolynagothergrooveback.
“Thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me
find my way. Some of us are better off as friends than lovers.
“It
is ok to see a professional counsellor, you ain’t mad you just need
clarification. It is ok to fail and rise again. Let God lead you. No hate but
love always. Accept your faults forgive the other and move on in peace.
“This
is my first time talking about my divorce, not an easy journey, most times
very painful moments especially if you are a perfectionist and kids are
involved. Kill the hate it will only ruin you.
“If you are
wondering how you will pick up financially trust me you will, just stay
focused and determined. Love without regrets .
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