Drummer Ara Explains Why Many Men Cannot Manage Successful Women In Marriage

Famous drummer, Ara has explained why many men can’t manage successful women, especially the ones in the spotlight.

Aralola Olamuyiwa who herself is a victim says many women have lost their career die to this.

Speaking in an interview with Saturday Beats, the new Performing Musicians Employers’ Association of Nigeria Governor, Lagos chapter, said, “When a woman gets married, the husband takes over. And the problem we have as females is that spouses, who see us and ask for our hands in marriage, already know what we are into.

“However, the moment they come into that picture, there’s a problem. This is because many men cannot manage women in the forefront. It’s not just music, it’s in every sector. So, this kills the drive. Some men tell their wives to choose between marriage and their career, and some women go for marriage and let the career die, although some stay put in their careers. Why should a man marry a career woman when he cannot cope with her career?”